Are you married and want more affection in your life

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He may not say it, but he has emotional needs, too. Gary Chapman. Then be ready to give him what he needs, and tell him honestly what you need. The two of you need a mutual understanding and agreement about affection in your marriage. He should know that you like his affection outside of the bedroom.

You should know that his advances, even if they are sexual in intent, are not purely selfish. If he is constantly chasing you around the house, that means he finds you attractive and exciting! And if he can develop a few purely affectionate habits, you will probably be more likely to accept his advances. Health Topics. Health Tools. Healthy Living. Last Updated: November 17, Sound familiar? A love relationship depends on physical touch, in and out of the bedroom, but sometimes spouses are not on the same when it comes to affection.

Find out how to enlighten him, and help him learn this basic loving skill to improve your marriage. Another more famous study by Ted Huston, Ph. Affection is a healthy feature for every marriage. The intensity and frequency of affection will differ for each couple, but its presence is crucial. Sex and Affection Sex in marriage has long been known to be a measure of happiness.

Although sex in itself is not the answer to a bad marriage, it is more of a result of things being right, like a thermometer that tells the temperature. Testosteronethe hormone that produces deep voices, beards, and the sex driveis normally fifteen times higher in males than females.

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Most men learn to temper these caveman-like behaviors, especially after being called perverts by their wives. Every man will differ in his sex drive depending on his health, age, and mental state, and so will women. However, a desire for sex does not always translate to a need for affection. Affection is a different animal altogether, albeit tied very closely to sex in a relationship. It can be an emotional display of love, including words and physical touch. It can also be the prelude to the act of sex. Resolve the Confusion Although men are typically thought of as very physical creatures, their need for affection and the ability to show it depends on their personality, and sometimes the way they were brought up.

If your man only shows affection when he wants sex, his behavior is not necessarily abnormal. If you have a need for affection outside of the bedroom, his advances may make you feel used and unloved. You may have even denied his advances because you felt his intentions were selfish and abnormal. To begin to resolve this confusion, ask yourself these questions: 1.

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Does my husband show his love to me, aside from affection? Does he spend time with you? Does he praise you? Does he do things to help you? Does he give you gifts?

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Have I sat down with my husband to explain how I really feel about his lack of affection toward me? Have I spelled out what I want from him?

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Is everything else ok in our marriage no other major issues? If there are still any major issues to be resolved in your marriage, consider seeing a marriage counselor. Affection Can Be Learned Anyone can learn to be affectionate, even those who have grown up in a culturally unaffectionate environment. He may receive your affection, but that is not enough for the person who craves it. You need affection from him that he initiates. Communicate your needs to him in a non-threatening way. When you sit down with your mate for that heart-to-heart, give him a list of two or three things he can do every day.

It might sound insincere, and extremely unromantic, but it will pay off in the end. Practicing these affectionate habits will not come so easily to those who have been physically or sexually abused. Public Display of Affection Although affectionate people feel differently about public displays of affection, most tend to like it. Short of making out, or exchanging amorous hugs in church, public displays of affection are suitable for most occasions and places. Come to an agreement with your mate about how much he is comfortable with before trying it out.

Explain to him that his affection for you in public shows that he is proud of you, and is so happy to have you that he wants the world to know it. It is a real human need, and if you let it go, someone else may come along who will offer to fill the gap, leaving you or your husband in a vulnerable place.

Protect your marriage by making sure both of you feel your needs are being met.

Are you married and want more affection in your life

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